• Triumph@fedia.io
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        1 month ago

        If this toddler is the first child, there’s a whole fuck ton you don’t know yet. Good luck.

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          1 month ago

          Yeah, sure. I’m raising a manipulative tryant. /s Shut the fuck up, you arrogant prick.

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            1 month ago

            Oh I’m sure your child is a little angel that will never lie, hide things from you or do anything naughty.

            Congratulations you’re the one parent in all of human history to figure it all out!

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              1 month ago

              Where have I ever said anything of the sort. I said that children under a certain age lack the social understanding to be deceptive. In order to be able to deceive someone, you need a theory of mind.

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                1 month ago

                It would be wonderful to see some research backing your anecdotal claim, otherwise I would simply have to assume your toddler may be experiencing delayed development

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                  1 month ago

                  From Wikipedia:

                  While much research has been done on infants, theory of mind develops continuously throughout childhood and into late adolescence as the synapsesin the prefrontal cortex develop. The prefrontal cortex is thought to be involved in planning and decision-making.  Children seem to develop theory of mind skills sequentially. The first skill to develop is the ability to recognize that others have diverse desires. Children are able to recognize that others have diverse beliefs soon after. The next skill to develop is recognizing that others have access to different knowledge bases. Finally, children are able to understand that others may have false beliefs and that others are capable of hiding emotions.

                  Edit: So, modelling a wrong state of the world in other agents apparently forms at 4, according to this review:

                  Fundamental developmental changes happen at around age 4, when new conceptual structures emerge. This ‘4 year revolution’ marks the onset of a fully fledged meta-representational ToM. In the course of this major transition, children gain the ability to succeed in a clus-ter of tasks that all require meta-representation. Among these are false-belief tasks, often considered a litmus test of mature ToM. These tasks explicitly require children to ascribe a subjective mis-representation to another agent and explain/predict their actions accordingly. In the most well known version, the child sees that another agent puts an object into one box and then the object is transferred to another box in the agent’s absence (Fig. 3a). The critical test question asked of the child is where the agent believes the object is or where the agent will search for the object39. Children younger than four systemati-cally answer incorrectly; they say that the agent thinks the object is where it really is and accordingly say that the agent will search in the second box. However, from around age 4, children succeed at the task by indicating that the agent will search in the first box.

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                  But I’m sure your child was a criminal mastemind schooling your ass at chess five minutes after they enacted a cunning plan of tricking their way out of the womb. /s … if you even have a child.

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                    1 month ago

                    Speaking of understanding the state of information and when it became available to others, do you think the Wikipedia article might need to be updated based on new research findings?

                    I will wait until the research is replicated but based on my 3 year old son’s behaviour I’m going to say that yes, children start attempting to deceive before 4 years old.

                    He’s been hiding biscuits and other treats he knows he shouldn’t have since well before he was 2.

                    So maybe you’re relying on outdated information, maybe you’re biased about your own child, or maybe your child is a little delayed.