• kunaltyagi@programming.dev
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      6 days ago

      Expectations pre event and reality post event can result in real whiplash. This could be any life-changing event like a career move, changing cities, relationships, etc.

      In relationships, it can be due to rose colored glasses but for parenthood, it’s a trial by fire. There’s no test run like a live-in relationship.

      And all of this ignores the hormonal changes which are have quite complex effects and are not fully understood.