• patruelis@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Yet no one wants to leave social media.

    I left it last year and feel so much better. No FB no Whatsapp, no Insta, no Tictok, no nothing.

      • Snapz@lemmy.world
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        1 day ago

        This comment is not the slam dunk you think it is… Lemmy isn’t owned by corp interests, it’s not algorithm driven and it isn’t 92% bots from fascists, oligarchs and foreign influence agencies. You can as much control as you want here. You can talk to actual people here.

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          12 hours ago

          Everyone has an agenda. Lemmy wasn’t created for shits and giggles. You don’t really know what’s under the hood, what posts and comments are encouraged, which ones have votes that are inflated. It’s an illusion to think otherwise.

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            7 hours ago

            You can join the Lemmy / ActivityPub developers’ meetings via video chat anytime you like. I’m not “into” that level of things but I dropped in a few times just to see what’s up - there’s a definite axe or two they’re grinding, not that they’re bad people or out to hurt others at all, but if you don’t detect some agenda basis from that crew, you need to think a layer deeper about what those people have been through and why they’re doing something to make the world a better place in the future.

          • x7HlPDq9dSNO6v3A9@lemmy.world
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            11 hours ago

            I feel like I’m missing something here, but isn’t knowing what’s under the hood exactly the point of projects like Lemmy? The source is available on github, and they explain the algorithms or talk about their political bias pretty openly in most communities.

            Were you thinking more from the angle of the way our social biases work as a group, or like the risk of maintainers tampering with the sauce pre-release?

            I hope this didn’t come across shitty - genuinely curious.

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              7 hours ago

              If open forums on the internet don’t have some filtering / steering they all too easily degenerate into YouTube comment sections, or worse. Lemmy seems to mostly be administered with a light touch, but I believe it - even more than Reddit - is sub-moderator driven in terms of what gets removed, what gets allowed.

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        1 day ago

        Does lemmy do the whole algorithm thing? I don’t think so, but I could be wrong.

        Algorithmic social media is pretty much what we’re talking about, I’m sure.

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        22 hours ago

        You are not wrong. It is a social media and TBF the term has been poisoned by many platforms. I think just like drinks there are healthier options. Healthier online community spaces and I’d like to think this place is one of them.

        It is an addiction that takes steps of lesser. The place you visit. How long you stay there are steps of management.

          • wedge@multiverse.soulism.net
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            2 days ago

            Yes, and… it’s a skill that needs to be practiced. We don’t call it out as a skill, we don’t recognize it as a skill, and we don’t tell others that they need to practice it. So we get stupid shit like people saying they don’t do social media, on social media.

            The world would be a much better place if we prioritized self-awareness as a universal skill.

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      2 days ago

      There are lots of us that wanted to leave and did. There are lots that want to and can’t find the will power to do so. It’s definitely addictive. It was hard for me to quit, I have an addictive personality, but I’ve also given up drinking and smoking entirely without councilors or pharma aids. I think it’s time we regulate it like a dangerous addiction until there’s a change to how the algorithms function, which may be never.